Thursday, December 31, 2020

THOUGHT

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Illustrations of the Book of Job

 Job Confessing His Presumption to God Who Answers from the Whirlwind

My thought: Life teaches us how much we can do, and how little we can do.

Is this about 2 levels of experience? We may be able to do little materially, much spiritually. To the contrary we may be able to do much materially and little spiritually. As we lose capabilities in our material bodies we trust that the spirit grows stronger as God prepares us for the transition to the non-material realm. The life of the spirit is no more confined to the mind than it is to the brain.
 

 

Saturday, December 26, 2020

HAPPY OLD MAN


Friday, December 30, 2011

Ageing

For many years I used to say, "this is the best year of my life".
But everything comes to an end.

2012 looms ahead as a stopping point.  There will be many challenges; there will be triumphs-- and failures.  This is par for the course, but right now with greater intensity than ever before.

Two years ago, when Ellie took up Blake, a great new vitality came into our lives. What had been my (occasional) obsession became a primary interest for us. For two years we have posted on William Blake: Religion and Psychology, one or the other each day (ramhornd.blogspot.com).

That was a new discipline for me; heretofore I did Blake sporadically for a few months and then something else for a few months.   But every day!! No way, until two years ago. A salutary development.  (It occurred to me that this
might have been the shape of my life, had not ten wartime years intruded over most of my twenties.)

However this intensive mental activity came at a cost.  After an intense two hours doing research I discovered I was sleepy (you might say my brain started getting sluggish).  Strangely enough it was much like what happened to me after two intense hours of tennis.

Wow! a Discovery! Intense mental activity and/or physical activity led to a diminution of energy- for one or the other.

 For an old man the challenge of this is to learn balanced habits that use the appropriate amount of the two activities-- to go from one to the other.  Perhaps this was simple second nature to many people much younger that my (advanced) age, but for me it was a Revelation.

Memory is the greatest problem.  Strangely enough a fairly large vocabulary was still in force, but I was frequently guilty of making up a sentence with appropriate words, only to the find the appropriate words forgotten before I got around to writing it;  like going to the bathroom for something and forgetting the purpose before I got there.)

Memory is something to fight for.  There are in fact two levels: the immediate memory continually diminished, but a (largely) unconscious reservoir exists available under certain circumstances.  The challenge is to learn how to use it more consciously.  Memory loss is one of the primary concomitants of Alzheimer's disease and similar disabilities.

How can we learn to remember?

Monday, December 21, 2020

CHRISTMAS CARD

 


Image by William Blake

Our Lady with the Infant Jesus Riding on a Lamb With

St John

From Victoria and Albert Museum


Luke 1

76] And you, child, will be called the prophet of the Most High; for you will go before the Lord to prepare his ways,
[77] to give knowledge of salvation to his people in the forgiveness of their sins,
[78] through the tender mercy of our God, when the day shall dawn upon us from on high
[79] to give light to those who sit in darkness and in the shadow of death, to guide our feet into the way of peace.
[80] And the child grew and became strong in spirit, and he was in the wilderness till the day of his manifestation to Israel.


Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you.

Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.

John 14: 27



Wednesday, December 16, 2020

CLAYTON FAMILY ARRIVES

In 1682 William Penn sailed for America with a large fleet of ships carrying immigrants. Perhaps most of these people were Quakers, but many were not. William Penn himself landed at New Castle, but at least one of his fleet made its way into Chesapeake Bay: the Submission, out of Liverpool and Bristol. The Submission arrived at Choptank, on the Choptank River in Dorchester County on the Eastern Shore of Maryland in November 1682. The "ship's log" lists her passengers, among them James and Jane Clayton and their six children. They were from Middlewich, in the Cheshire County, England

 Many or most of the passengers of the Submission disembarked at Choptank and traveled overland to Bucks County, Pennsylvania, on the west side of the Delaware River a few miles above Philadelphia. It may be assumed that James Clayton and his family were in this number. Neither is it difficult to imagine that some of the party found desirable home sites along the way. Each of the three Clayton sons of James Clayton, as he reached his majority, appeared in the records of Kent County, Delaware.[1]

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 III. The Georgia Claytons

As stated above the only Claytons remaining in N.C. long after the beginning of the 19th century were the descendants of John Clayton in Hyde County and of William Clayton by his third son, William, in Craven County. James III is presumed to have been lost in the Revolution. The younger son, Thomas moved to Hancock County, Ga about 1804. Some years later he was followed by his two nephews, James and Dempsey, who were both apparently local preachers in the Methodist Church. We also have records of several Delamars and Carruthers families moving to Georgia, very likely related to the Claytons and also Eunice Cannon, daughter of James Clayton, the blacksmith of Craven County.

Thomas Clayton, grandson of the original James, settled first in Hancock County Ga. By 1812 the tax list there showed the following: Thomas Clayton, Sr. Thomas Clayton, Jr. James Clayton (This James was probably the son of Thomas, Sr.) Eunice Cannon (Thomas Clayton's sister) By 1820 there were three James Claytons in Hancock County. In addition to Thomas's son, it appears that his nephew James, son of William, had moved to the area.

In 1816 Thomas Clayton and most of his family moved south to Pulaski Co. In 1820 he died there. His two older sons, James and Thomas, had remained in Hancock County. From the Bible of his son, James, still preserved by the family of Margaret Russell Clayton of Eufaula, Alabama, we have the birthdates of his children: Miriam Barcliff b 1787; died 1805 in Hancock Co. James b. 1788, moved to Monroe Co 1827 Thomas b 1790, died 1834 in Hancock County, Ga. Nelson b. 1796, lived in Pulaski Co, then Alabama William b. 1799 Delamar b. 1802 Sarah b. 1804 Easter b. 1807.

Margaret Clayton Russell has written a family history that gives details about the lives of all of these people. In this article mention is made of Nelson Clayton and his descendants. Nelson Clayton, son of Thomas, son of James, son of James, married Sarah Leith Carruthers in 1819 in Pulaski County. In 1835 he moved to south Alabama, where his brother, James had already settled.

Nelson Clayton's youngest son, Henry Delamar Clayton, born 1827, became a major general in the Confederate army and later was president of the University of Alabama. He was the great grandfather of Margaret Clayton Russell, from whom much of this family history came. The general's son, Henry D. Clayton, Jr. became a Congressman from Alabama. Meanwhile Thomas' nephews, James and Dempsey, the sons of William, moved westward from Hancock County with the advancing frontier.

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5. William Clayton of Craven Co. NC

Descendants of William Clayton

Two of William Clayton's sons, James and Dempsey, were Methodist ministers, and they both moved to Georgia early in the 19th Century. William Clayton's third son, William, appears to have remained in Craven County.

William Clayton married Susannah Leverman in 1792.
Bondsman: John Clayton; T. Mckey, Witness. (This may or may not be out William Clayton.)



6. Rev James Clayton of Butts Co. GA

James was born in 1776. In early years a blacksmith, he became a Methodist minister, (and a doctor of some sort), helped start churches in Craven and Person Counties in NC, others in Butts Co. GA, in Coosa and Tallapoosa Counties in AL. (He was the ancestor of the present writer.) ; in 1792 he married Sarah Carraway.

James Clayton of Craven Co. NC, Person Co. NC, Butts and Carroll Counties, GA, and Tallapoosa and Chambers Counties in AL died in the last of these locations some time after 1860.

In 1805 in Craven County James Clayton signed a bond for the marriage of Patsy Delamar to Spencer Pittman.

In 1806 he signed the bond for marriage of Christopher Delamar to Ann York.

In 1811 Polly Delamar, James Clayton's daughter, married Churchill Delamar, brother of Christopher. Both were sons of Francis Delamar IV.

Dempsey Clayton was admitted to the Virginia Conference of the Methodist Church in 1805 and assigned to the Caswell Circuit in the Salisbury District. (He apparently 'located' within a year because he does not appear among the appointments for 1806 or thereafter.) He later appeared with his brother, James and his nephew Churchill Delamar, on a list of trustees to receive a piece of property in Person Co. for a meeting house for Methodists. Later still he moved to Newton Co. GA and then to Carroll Co. GA.

William's 3rd son, William, Jr., a blacksmith, married Susanna Hammontree in 1798. Most likely he remained in Craven Co. and was the ancestor of the present generation living there.

As stated above William Jr's two brothers and his nephew Churchill Delamar moved to GA. But before they did they spent some time in Person County, probably largely for the purpose of organizing what became the Tirzah Methodist Church in the southeast corner of the county, a few miles in fact from Durham.

In 1816 Clayton James, acting as trustee of a Methodist congregation in Person Co., together with Dempsey Clayton and Churchwell Delamar and several Moores received a conveyance from Samuel Dickens, a member of the Moore family who owned most of the Mt. Tirzah neighbor in SE Person Co. They were deeded "five acres on a branch of Hillsboro Rd to erect a house of worship for Methodist Episcopal Church" A few years later the house of worship burned and a new deed was issued for property nearby.

The 1820 census reveals Dempsey Clayton and Churchill Delamar in Person County. James appears to be absent and it appears that during that year he probably moved to Hancock County GA., part of which later became Butts Co.

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James Clayton, the Son of James Clayton of Hyde Co.

This man, you may recall, was born in Kent County, Delaware, and appeared in his youth to be closely associated with his mother's family, the Newells. He had three maternal uncles, named John, Thomas, and William, after whom three of his sons may have been named. It seems likely that all four of his sons were also born in Delaware, although his father had probably moved to Hyde County before any of his grandchildren were born.

James Clayton, blacksmith, continued to live in Hyde County until ca 1769. In 1762 a deed from Thomas and John Spencer to James Clayton was acknowedged in court and registered. (This John Spencer may have been the son of William Spencer.) During this period James Clayton sold three tracts of land. In July 1769 he appeared on a petit jury, but he apparently moved to Craven County that year. He continued to sell property in Hyde County until 1782, but the deeds identify him as James Clayton of Craven County.

In 1767 James Clayton had acquired property in Craven County on the Lower Broad Creek: two tracts from John Carruthers and one from Thomas Delamar:

1767 John Carruthers, planter, to James Clayton, Blacksmith for 16 lbs. 100 acres ns of Neuse and ns of Lower Broad Cr. beginning at Whitehouse Gut. Witnesses: Thomas Delamar and Isaac Simmons. (Carruthers had recently purchased this property from John Moore, Elder.)

1767 John Carruthers to James Clayton for 11 lbs land ns of Neuse, s side of head of Lower Broad Cr. beginning at mouth of Poplar Branch, etc. to corner of a patent granted to John Moore 11 April 1745, to Isaac Simmons line, etc.
witnesses: Thomas Delamar and Isaac Simmons
(One book has this deed published as conveyed to Joseph Carruthers, but I believe that is in error.)

James Clayton appears on a tax list in Craven County in 1769 with five slaves.

James appears to be a widower in Craven Co. because within a couple of years he had apparently remarried--to Mary Edwards, a widow with at least four children. Her husband, Solomon Edwards, had apparently died in 1766.

In March of 1771 James appeared in court, represented by Mr. Sitgreaves, to qualify as administrator of the estate of Acenah Edwards, decd. (Significantly Capt. Thomas Sitgeaves, paid a unit of soldiers who had belonged to the Prison Guard on Jan 8, 1771. The unit included the name James Clayton, probably the son of the James whom Sitgreaves had represented in this court case. Was this in connection with the Regulators incident?) James Clayton entered into bond with James Carraway and Christopher Dawson and qualified.

In 1774 James Clayton acquired more property in the Lower Broad Creek area from Joseph Brooks. (See Craven County deed books 14, 15 and 21.) The Brooks tract appears to be his last land acquisition except for a patent for 500 acres on the sound granted in 1782.

In 1776 James Clayton, Sr., blacksmith for love and affection conveyed to his son William Clayton the two parcels on the Lower Broad which he had acquired in 1767 including the 100 acres on the north side of the creek "where James Clayton, Sr. now lives".
Witnesses were John Carruthers and Abel McBay.

His will indicates that his home plantation was adj. to William Clayton, Joseph Carraway and Joseph Good. His exors were "my son William Clayton and my friends William Carraway Esqr and Joseph Good" (Presumably this is the William Carraway whose will was also made in 1783.)

In December of 1783 the will of James Clayton, planter, was proved by Francis Delamar in Craven County court (it was written the 21st day of August). In it he names wife Mary and four sons:
John, born 1745 died in Hyde Co.;
William, born 1750, married Rhoda Ann;
James, born 1753, thought to have died in the Revolution;
Thomas, born 1755, married Sarah Delamar, dau of Francis 1784.
(The birthdates of the four sons were provided by cousin Margaret Clayton Russell.)

James left his children land in Hyde and Craven Counties. In addition to his sons he named three daughters:
Tomson (or Tonnieson?), who was contemporary with his sons. She married Demson Delamar, and they are said to have moved to GA.

The other two daughters were children of Mary Edwards. They were contemporary with their father's grandchildren. (Their mother survived James and wrote her will in 1795):
Elizabeth married Jesse Lester. He was the executor of Elizabeth's mother, Mary Clayton in 1795, but Elizabeth had died by that time. It is possible that James C Lester was their son; he is mentioned in the will of Thomas Clayton in Pulaski Co. GA in 1820.
Eunice married James Cannon and moved to Ga.

James Clayton's son John, apparently the oldest, seems to have remained in Hyde County. He and his brothers exchanged property so that he owned all the Hyde County property and they owned all the Craven County property. John had two sons, Thomas and Elliot.

Elliot Clayton joined the Core Sound Friends Meeting on 8m 27d, 1814 but was dismissed three years later for "marrying out of unity". (There are Claytons in Hyde County today, but they trace their ancestry from the Claytons of Perquimans Co, a branch of the New Jersey family.)

There was a Quaker meeting house on or near the shore of Lake Matamuskeet and probably on land which had been owned by Elliot's grandfather, James Clayton. The property belonged to John Moore of Jones Co. when he died ca 1798 and willed it to three Quakers, Ezekiel Harris, James Hall and Lemuel Cartwright. James Hall was almost surely a cousin of James Clayton and had come down with him from Kent Co. DE ca 1760 and was conveyed property by James Clayton on the lake. In 1764 Ezekiel Cartwright was conveyed similar property, and in 1772 Ezekiel Harris.

Son William appears to have remained in Craven County. (This is probably the William Clayton who is a recorded participant in the battle of Camden as a part of the Craven County militia.) Craven County deeds reveal that he and his wife Rhoda Ann had three sons: James, Dempsey, and William.

Son James was said to be "absant" and his share was conditioned upon his return, and otherwise was to go to his three brothers. (Mrs. Margaret Clayton Russell, who has published a history of the Clayton family stated that son James was in the American navy during the Revolution, captured by the British and last heard of in Pensacola. She has this from family records and/or traditions.)

Son Thomas, presumably, the youngest, born in 1755, was the ancestor of Margaret Clayton Russell. Thomas married Sarah Delamar, daughter of Francis Delamar. In a deed from his brother William in 1796 he is listed as a ship carpenter. (William is listed as a blacksmith.) Thomas moved to Hancock County, Ga. in 1804, and his descendant, Margaret Russell, has considerable detail on his family history from that time. Thomas's grandson was the famous General Henry Delamar Clayton of the Confederate forces in Alabama.

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The Clayton Family Moves South


Although no extant records have been found demonstrating the emigration of the Delaware Clayton family to North Carolina, the circumstantial evidence is convincing. In Kent Co., DE in the first half of the 18th century there were two James Claytons, father and son; Both were thought to have left Delaware. The junior of the two was a blacksmith. Soon after the respective departures of these two men, two corresponding James Claytons, father and son, appeared in Hyde County, N.C. The junior of the two was a blacksmith. Attempts to locate additional evidence of these moves is on-going.

Indirect evidence appears in the coindence of names of some of the Hyde County people with those of Delaware. The most notable of these is the name Stuckberry

Several other names also appear in both locations. Of particular interest are Brooks and Morris.

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There is a record of a James Clayton in Edgecombe Co. N.C. as early as 1735. He appears on a list of people present in Edgecombe County found among miscellaneous papers in early Edgecombe court files (cited in N.C. Hist and Gen. Register V.2 p 465 1901).

The first reliable records of our ancestor occur in 1744 in the Currituck tax list. In 1745 James Clayton received headrights from William Brooks. The same year a portion of Currituck County, namely the Lake Matamuskeet area, became part of Hyde County.

In 1747 James Clayton made his first application for a grant on Lake Matamuskeet and over the next 15 years he received patents of land along the lake totaling some 3000 acres. When he died he left very little in the way of personal effects. Before he died he had sold a good part of the land he had acquired. In various deeds he is described as carpenter, giner, joiner.

In 1759 and 1760 he sold several tracts of land to James Clayton, Jr., blacksmith. The original James Clayton appears often in Hyde County court minutes: recording deeds, serving as juror, and once as commissioner of the roads on the lake.
(See Land dealings of James Clayton of Hyde.)

James Clayton, Sr. died ca 1760. Many other conveyances were made by James Clayton, Jr.
N.C.Hist.Rev. Vol 47 (1970) p 52 footnote gives Hyde County Deed Book B, 571 (1775) in which James Clayton, Craven County, blacksmith, transferred to John Jones, of the same county, 80 acres on the N side of Aromuskeet Lake. For additional land deals of John Jones in Hyde County see pages 607,782,792,800, 804,891. This suggests that the 1774 deed to Blackledge, Jones, Spencer, and Neale was his first venture into Hyde, Jones had at least two deals with Clayton and very likely took his place as a primary owner of the lakeshore. -------------------------------------
In June of 1762 James Clayton moved in court for an order to sell the goods and chattels of James Clayton, decd. In 1762 James Clayton, blacksmith disposed of 200 acres left from the 1756 grants, claiming it as "lawful heir of my father James Clayton, decd." So far as is known, this James Clayton, blacksmith, and his children were the only descendants of the original James Clayton, the carpenter of Hyde County, originally from Kent Co. DE.

Three people who were later closely associated with James, Jr. in Craven County appear in the Hyde County records:

Francis Delamar was an executor of the will of John Martin in 1737, as was also John Carruthers, Martin's brother-in-law. Wm and Elizabeth Carruthers were witnesses. Years later when James Clayton, Jr. moved to Craven County, he acquired one tract of land from Thomas Delamar and two others from John Carruthers. (In the will Martin mentions his "lower plantation at mouth of Broad Creek", which presumably may be very near the area where James Clayton, Jr. settled in Craven (now Pamlico) County.)

(In 1767 John Carruthers , (husband of Patti Carraway), purchased two tracts from John Moore on the Lower Broad and almost immediately sold them to James Clayton for the same price. It thus appears he was acting as agent for one or both. Was this John Moore part of the family of Ann Moore, who had married William Carraway? one tract was on the N side of Lower Broad, and the other on the south side of the head of Lower Broad, said to be John Moore's 1730 patent.)

BUTTERFLY

 
The season is ending with a whimper.

Tuesday, December 1, 2020

BABY JESUS

 




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